The terminology used to define sexual preferences and orientation number in the hundreds. The vocabulary used in online dating, relationships, hookups, and sex has evolved significantly over time. Do you know the most up-to-date terminology to explain your preferences and the qualities you’re looking for in an online dating match? A glossary of sex and dating terms for personal advertising and online dating can be found below. When you have inquiries about acronyms or abbreviations used in online dating, refer back to our collection on DateSWF.
Internet slang for dating and sex is continuously evolving. Below are many acronyms that are used to describe things like race, ethnicity, physical appearance, sexual orientation, and religion. The list of abbreviations and acronyms used in personal advertising below serves as your own vocabulary when dating online across the nation, USA, and around the globe.
ZOMBIE: a ghost who reappears in your life (online or real)
YODO: you only dump once
YM4OM: younger male for older male
Y: why, you or yours
Y/O: year-old
XLD: extremely light drinker
X-FACTOR: a very special personal quality
WUW: what are you wearing or who are you with
WTR: willing to relocate
WLTM: would like to meet
WATERMELON SUGAR: oral sex
WAA: will answer all
W4W: woman for woman
W4MW: woman for man and woman
W4M: woman for man
W: widowed or white
W/E: well endowed
W/S: water-sports (fetish involving urine or enemas)
W: white/caucasion
VWE: very well endowed
VITAMIN-D: penis
VGL: very good looking
VBD: very bad date
VAS: vasectomy
V CARD: virgin card
UNCUFFING: ditching a long term relationship
TYVM: thank you very much
TV: transvestite
TS: transexual
TRIM: vagina
TRADE: young,, sexually attractive gay male
TLC: tender loving care
THIRSTY: desperate for a relationship
THIRST TRAP: picture posted to attract attention
TG: transgendered
TEXTLATIONSHIP: a relationship based only on digital contact
TDH: tall dark handsome
T4M: transvestite looking for male, transgendered looking for a man
SWS: sex without strings
SWPM: single white professional male
SWPF: single white professional female
SWM: single white male or straight white male
SWF: single white female or straight white female
SWANK: second wife and no kids, single woman and no kids
SUB: submissive
STR8: straight
STR: short term relationship
STI: sexually transmitted infection.
STD: sexually transmitted disease
SOLA: single or living alone
SO: significant other
SNAOTR: spiritual not atheist or traditionally religious
SMP: sexual marketplace
SM: sado-masochism
SLOW-FDING: slowly winding down contact with someone you have been dating
SLAY: get a lot of dates
SI: similar interests
SHF: single Hispanic male or straight Hispanic male
SGL: single
SEGGS: sex
SECKS: sex
SCM: single Christian male
SCF: single Christian female
SBM: single black male or straight black male
SBiM: single bisexual male
SBiF: single bisexual female
SBF: single black female or straight black female
SAM: single Asian male or straight Asian male
SAF: single Asian female or straight Asian female
S: singles
S&M, SM: sadomasochism
RTS: real time sex
ROUGH TRADE: casual sex between men from different social classes
RO: reverse oral
RL: real life
R-BOMBED; when your love interest ignores your messages
Q: cool
PUSSY: vagina
PSE: porn star experience
POSSLQ: personof opposite sex sharing living quarters
POF: plenty of fish
PNP: party and play
PM: professional male
PLAYER: romantically or sexually promiscuous person
PF: professional female
PEGGING: female to male/female anal sex with a strapon
PEACOCKING: dressing up for social media photos
OWC: oral without condom
OTTER: slim and hairy gay man
OTH: on the hook or off the hook
OSO: other significant other
ONS: one night stand
OM4YM: older male for younger male
OBOE: penis
OAT: on a thing
NSA: no strings attached
NS: nonsmoking
NRI: non-resident indian
NON-DATE DATE: a date arranged as a social get together rather than a romantic event
NIP NOPS: nipples
NGSB: no girlfriend since birth
NETFLIX AND CHILL: chill with someone in front or tv, usually an invitation to have sex
ND: no drugs
NBSB: no boyfriend since birth
NA: native American
MWC: married white couple
MW4W: man and woman for woman
MW4MW: man and woman for man and woman
MW4M: man and woman for man
MUNCH: a guy who performs oral sex on a woman
MTF: male-to-female transsexual
MTAF: more than a friend
MOTSS: member of the same sex
MOTOS: member of the opposite sex
MONKEY: someone who moves quickly from one relationship to the next
MM: married man or marriage minded
MLTR: multiple long term relationships
MHC: married Hispanic couple
MEET CUTE: a romantic first encounter
MBM: married black male
MBL: married but looking
MBiC: married bisexual couple
MBC: married black couple
MBA: married but available
M4W: man for woman
M4T: male for transvestite
M4T: male for transsexual
M4MW: man for man and woman
M4M: man for man
M: male or married
LV: love
LTR: long term relationship
LSA: limited strings attached
LS: life story, light smoker
LOCKERING: using academic studiess an excuse for cooling a relationship
LGBT: lesbian gay bisexual transgender
LFG: looking for group
LE$BEAN: lesbian
LE DOLLAR SIGN BEAN: lesbian
LE DOLLAR BEAN: lesbian
LDS: later day saints or mormon
LDR: long distance relationship
LDH: long distance hug
LDA: long distance affair
LD: light drinker
LBGTQ: lesbian gay bisexual transgender queer (or questioning)
LAYBY: someone you are dating while waiting for better options
L: lesbian
L: latino or latina
KRAY BAE: crazy baby
KITTY: vagina
K: kids
JELLY-ROLL: genetalia
JELLY: jealous
JBY: just be yourself
J: jewish
ISOLTR: in search of long term relationship
ISO: in search of
IRLY: I really like you
IRL: in real life
IPT: is partial to
I: indian
HWP: height weight proportional
HNG: horny net geek
Het: heterosexual
HAUNTING: when ex-partner reappears in your life
HASIAN; hot Asian
HAC: hot Asian chick
H: Hispanic
H/O: hangout
GWM: gay white male
GWF: gay white female
GWC: gay white couple
GTSY: good to see you
GOSH: good sense of humor
GREEK: anal sex
GOWM: gout with me
GM: gay male
GHOST: end conversation without explanation
GHM: gay Hispanic male
GHF: gay Hispanic female
GG: genetic girl
GG: game and giving
GFE: girlfriend experience
GF: girlfriend
GF: gay female
GC: gay couple
GBM: gay black male
GBF: gay black female
GAM: gay asian male
GAF: gay asian female
G: gay
FYI: for your information
FWB: friend with benefits
FTTB: for the time being
FTM: female to male transsexual
FTA: fun travel adventure
FSM: female seeking male
FSF: female seeking female
FOMO: fear of missing out
FBO: facebook official
FAQ: frequently asked questions
FA: fat acceptance or fat admirer
F9: fine, get rid, promiscuous
F2F: face to face
F: female
EVWE; extremely very well endowed
ENTANGLEMENT: complicated romantic relationship
EGGPLANT: penis
E-FIT: careful editing of social media posts so they serve as online dating profile
EDGE: Point just before orgasm
EAT OUT: perform oral sex on a woman
DWM: divorced white male
DWF: divorced white female
DTR: define the relationship
DTF: down to fuc-
DTE: down to earth
DTE: down to earth
Domme: female dominant
Dom: male dominant
DL: down low
DFK: deep French kissing
DF: drug free or disease free
DDF: drug and disease free
DBM: divorced black male
DBF: divorced black female
DB: dead bedroom
DateSWM: date single White male or straight White male
DateSWF: date single White female or straight White female
DateSHM: date single Hispanic male or straight Hispanic male
DateSHF: date single Hispanic female or straight Hispanic female
DateSBM: date single Black male or straight Black male
DateSBF: date single Black female or straight Black female
DateSAM: date single Asian male or straight Asian male
DateSAF: date single Asian female or straight Asian female
DADDY: dominant male, male partner
D2F: down to fuc-
D/s: dominance and submission
D/D: drug and disease
D: divorced
CUSHIONING: maintaining alternative romantic relationships
CUFFED: married or already in a relationship
CUFF: tie down in a relationship
CU: see you
CPL: couple
COTD: catch of the day
CORNUCOPIA: homophobia
CORN: pornography
COM: come on body
CMIYC: catch me if you can
CIM: come in mouth
CILF: cartoon I’d like to fuc-
CD: cross-dresser
CATFISH: someone who creates a false identity online
CAR: catch and release
C2c: cam to cam
C: couple
C: Christian
BREADCRUMBING: sending flirty messages tokeep a potential lover interested
BMW: big Mexican woman
BM: black man
BLK: black
BiMM: bisexual married male
BiMF: bisexual married female
BiM: bisexual male
BiF: bisexual female
Bi: bisexual
BHM: big handsome man
BFWB: best friends with benefits
BFFWB: best friend forever with benefits
BF: boyfriend
BF: black female
BEAR: big and hairy gay man
BDSM: bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sado-masochism
BBW: big beautiful woman
BBC: big black cock
BBBW: big black beautiful woman
BB: barebacking
BB: bodybuilder
BAE: baby, before anyone else
BACKSLIDE: return to a former partner
B&D, B/D: bondage and discipline or bondage and domination
B: black or brother, babe, bae, boo
AZN: Asian
ASL: age state location
ASL: age sex location
AS: ass fuc-
AL: animal over
AFF: adult friend finder
ACA: all calls answered
ABG: Asian baby girl
A: Asian
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@N4L: anal
Because it’s possible to say so much without writing a lot, online dating abbreviations and personal ad acronyms have grown rather popular. Do you have any further abbreviations, acronyms, lingo, slang, or cyber definitions related to digital online dating? Please inform us if so.
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